9 Steps To Success In Relationship: Love, Commitment, Family.
I know we all love that sunrise feeling. It’s one of the perks of living. And with that, we all tend to brand it as a symbol of starting over in life. Each day is always a good chance to start over. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Sometimes you need to move to a new city, or state, for instance, Nebraska, Mississippi or Arkansas to start over in life. More importantly, you need to find the best way to do it. There comes a time when you need to turn over a new leaf.
That said, there are few signs that you need to look for. These signs will tell you that it’s time to change the course of your life. That means you need to eliminate whatever is causing you to feel down. These signs include being:
- Feeling Sad all-day
- Being Irritable
- Cynical all the time
- Having trouble concentrating
- Fatigue that’s unusual
- Having trouble sleeping
You might have no idea what’s going on. But if you consult your psychologist, he or she will tell you that you need to make certain changes in your life. However, starting over is not an act of surrender. Additionally, this also doesn’t mean that you need to forget everything you’ve gone through. It only means you need to merge your past and your present then focus on moving ahead.
If you have any of the above symptoms and it’s probably because of your relationship, then it’s high time for you to move on with your life. Stop whining about your past broken relationship and text that new crush. Let them know how you feel.
1. How To Talk To Your Crush Over Text
I’m sure you are probably wondering whether you should text your crush or not. It can be frustrating especially if you’ve never confessed to your crush that you have feelings for them. The worst part is if you don’t know the kind of response you will get.
All in all, remember that your reaction is completely understandable. I mean, obviously, you have a serious crush on him or her. So, it’s only natural for you to feel that way. Also, I’m sure you are dying to have a conversation with your crush but you don’t want to call. Anyways, who calls nowadays?
Starting a conversation is pretty easy and it will hopefully lead to a fruitful relationship. To get you started, here are some dos and don’ts.
2. Do Include Fun Images With Your Texts Where Necessary
A picture says a lot more than a thousand words. It speaks to us in a different way when compared to words. That said, you can use that to your advantage. Instead of typing really long messages, you can just use a picture to say it all. Trust me, it will get the point across in a classy and elegant way.
3. Do Crack A Few Jokes. Funny Is Always Attractive
Being able to make your crush smile is just a step in the right direction. Everyone loves smiling and I’m sure your crush does too. So, what you need to do is to try and be as funny as possible. But make sure you don’t use bad jokes that will end up causing more harm than good.
4. Forget About Who Needs To Text First
When it comes to texting, make it easy for your crush to talk to you. Forget about who should be leading the conversation or who should text first. That will only slow down your conversations and in the end disrupt the link between you two.
A woman’s fingers are as good as a man’s. So, don’t worry when you text first. Get over the gender type of nonsense. We are in the 21st century. This century is known for treating everyone equally.
5. Do Have Some Fun With The Animojis Or Emojis
I can’t imagine texting your crush without using emojis. It makes me wonder how people used to chat without using emojis. When used in moderation, emojis are quite adorable and they help get the message across. Therefore, when you get the chance to use them, don’t waste it. Mix it up.
6. Don’t Send Any Weird Pictures
Don’t send ‘those’ type of pics since it will only make your conversations awkward. Sending a photo of your face for recognition is a good thing. But don’t expose any other part of your body over text since it will only complicate your conversations.
7. Don’t End Texts With “hahaha” or “hehe”
Ending sentences with these phrases is not sexy. I’m sure you are very excited that you finally got the chance to talk to your crush, but these phrases will only push him or her away. Do you think you can easily laugh out loud next to your crush? If not, then don’t express it over text.
Now that you have had the chance to chat with your crush, you will need to know how to start a new relationship. Keep on reading and I will make it brief just for you.
8. How To Start A New Relationship
One of the main reasons you might be single right now is probably because your last relationship ended. Before jumping into a new relationship, find out what went wrong on your previous one. With that, you will be able to avoid the same mistakes in this relationship.
When talking to your new partner, make it clear to them what went wrong in your previous relationship. That will ensure you don’t have the same problems in your current one. Also, you need to keep things simple and give your partner the chance to reciprocate their feelings. I mean don’t blow up their phones.
Additionally, watch out for red flags. When your partner repeatedly cancels out on dates or you see them treating other people poorly, it’s a sign that you shouldn’t invest in the relationship for the long term. More to that, communication is very important, especially in a young relationship.
9. Before You Go…
Love is a very complicated feeling. And, I also believe it’s the best gift we have. I can tell you all that you need to do and the things that you shouldn’t do. But when it all boils down to you. You are in control of your new relationship and only the two of you understand where you are going. Good luck, xoxo!